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Is dating in college necessary? Why and why not?

15.06.2025 06:33

Is dating in college necessary? Why and why not?

Again, take baby steps. Start with focusing on building friends and go from there. You never know, sometimes that friend that you made will end up introduce you to one of their hot single girl friends.

I’m speaking from a man’s perspective

Your goal of going to college is academics. That’s your priority. What you should also be focusing on is building friendship. Now I understand that some people are more introvert than others and that’s ok. But if your goal of going to college is to get girls I can tell you that you are coming off as desperate. Don’t be that guy. But don’t be those psychopaths Red Pill incels who bitch about how girls are whores and thots and are only going after “high value man”

Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.

Just relax and enjoy college. Just focus on your academics and find time to build friends. Again college is the best time to build friends. Take time to socialize with your classmate. Get to know them. And if you have 1 that you think it’s cool, ask them to go grab lunch during breaks. Or ask them to hang out somewhere.

Well, there’s no law or rules that forbids you to not date in college. Is it necessary ? Not really, but that doesn’t mean you need to go social isolation mode. So many college kids believe that if they don’t date they need to socially isolate themselves and just go full gear on academics. That’s terrible. Don’t listen to those fake Instagram stories where they tell you to take 20 years off dating and in your 40s all girls will chase you.